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bronzyglow:

february is the month for restoration, healthy selfishness and unconditional love

motiya:

when you feel alone and work is overwhelming just remember that you’re a part of someone’s best memories. no dialogue just your presence, in exploring somewhere new, a reassuring smile and support you gave, or in lots of laughter and sun. it helps the days feel worth more, even if today felt like it didn’t count, it did. you exist in so many ways you can’t measure.

happiersuggestion:

romantic love isn’t everything. love comes in many forms. when he bought you coffee. when she complimented your outfit. platonic love is just as good. friend love is good love too.

Those who love you are not fooled by mistakes you have made, or by dark images you hold about yourself. They remember your beauty when you feel ugly; your wholeness when you are broken; your innocence when you feel guilty; and your purpose when you are confused.

- Alan Cohen (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

warm-suggestions:

No matter what anyone says, you are good, you are worthy, and you are loved.

fruitleaf:

(note to self)

  • wear soft clothes
  • swim in the rain
  • embroider, draw, and knit to keep your hands busy
  • go outside
  • look at the moon
  • be nice to yourself
  • have a light heart
  • everything will be ok

selflessbellamy:

all of my fellow introverts and old souls, please remember that there is no shame in:

  • not enjoying parties 
  • preferring a relaxed conversation to a big social gathering
  • not drinking or smoking 
  • thinking a lot 
  • listening instead of talking
  • not seeing the point in skipping classes
  • needing time to yourself

healingsuggestions:

you are enough, you don’t need someone to complete you, and you don’t need to complete someone else

killyouranxiety:

a really excellent way to reduce anxiety is to pick up a new hobby. find something you’re interested in, learn it, then use it as a healthy and productive way to cope.

There’s so much more to life than finding someone who will want you, or being sad over someone who doesn’t. There’s a lot of wonderful time to be spent discovering yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way, and it doesn’t need to be painful or empty. You need to fill yourself up with love. Not anyone else. Become a whole being on your own. Go on adventures, fall asleep in the woods with friends, wander around the city at night, sit in a coffee shop on your own, write on bathroom stalls, leave notes in library books, dress up for yourself, give to others, smile a lot. Do all things with love, but don’t romanticize life like you can’t survive without it. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. It isn’t any less beautiful, I promise.

-

Emery Allen  (via

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